Are you teaching your child to be good for a reward or are you teaching them to make good choices because they understand it's the right thing to do? Be careful using rewards as children will not know the difference between acting well just so they get the bribery gift and how empathy, consequences and love works. Paying children to do chores or get good grades is not teaching them that contributing to the family or taking responsibility of their tasks is a requirement. It's seen as a trade off or a choice.
Think about learning lessons before immediate results.
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