Parents, Grandparents, babysitters and guardians set limits. These limits are needed for children to know bounderies for their future. Natural Consequences are a total different idea. This is how children really learn. Once they cross that line in the real world, they learn quickly. There is no reason for punishment or discipline when they are reminded by other factors that they chose the incorrect direction. They may not have seen the learning lesson, which it's okay to subtly point out using empathy and love, but it's the most efficient and effective learning tool in the book. Next time your child moves in the wrong direction, let nature takes it's course. Don't intervene. These lessons are here for a purpose. Sit back and show love.
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