Tranquility and Peace does not mean you or your children have a life without conflict. Peace and tranquility are the successful resolutions of each conflict.
Children need conflict in order to figure out how to resolve conflict peacefully. Each time a parent intervenes with the act of problem solving, the parent distracts the lesson. When children successfully resolve conflicts on their own, they learn how to master needed solutions.
This large distraction also sends the message that how you feel comes second to how you act.
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